Hey everyone, happy to announce that my wee little children's book won a gold medal in this year's Florida Authors and Publishers Association Book Awards. Whoa, I've never won a gold medal in anything before! But better late than never, right? Meanwhile, check me out over at the Ambivalent Part-Time Expat (also an award winner!) where I do all my blogging these days.
Rebecca Agiewich
Monday, October 23, 2023
Monday, September 12, 2022
News tidbits
Hey peeps, if you haven't checked out my other blog yet - The Ambivalent Part-Time Expat, it recently won an award! It got honorable mention in the National Society of Newpaper Columnists 2022 writing contest, in the online humor category. Check out some of the other winners in this category cuz they are even funnier than me.
In other exciting news, my story "Hazel Down the Rabbit Hole," published in Cricket Magazine in 2020, was turned into a standalone book by educational publisher Pioneer Valley Books. You can read it online here! (Or even order a copy). If you're a teacher living in WA state and you want me to come read in your classroom, I'd be happy to pay you a visit.
Wednesday, June 30, 2021
Essay publication: I'm looking for a campervan, not another man
Hello all! Thought I'd drop in here to share my latest publication with you in The Globe and Mail: I'm looking for a campervan not another man. If you get a message saying you need a subscription to open that link, you can use this one instead, which links to a PDF, and has the advantage of showing you what the piece looked like in an actual, physical newspaper!
Also, just a friendly reminder that I now blog regularly over at the Part-Time Ambivalent Expat. Join me there! If you subscribe (it's free), you get a handy email in your inbox every time I post.Thursday, January 9, 2020
New gossipy blog and newsletter from Mexico: The Ambivalent Part-Time Expat
Meanwhile I'll keep posting here occasionally.
xo
Rebecca
Friday, August 30, 2019
Essay publication: "To the guy who saved us from sleeping in our car"
(Leonard, whose last name I never learned, I hope you read this although I know you won't!)
And yes, he is my ex, despite the "happy" ending of the essay.
Anyway, it was a pleasure writing for Off Assignment, because their editor really helped me to streamline this essay and punch it up. I'm proud to see it online in such a high-quality publication.
Friday, August 2, 2019
On wildflowers and dog custody battles
My favorite volcano, Mt. Rainier |
The fact that I can teach writing classes at Hugo House again, drink Peet's Coffee, walk around Greenlake, ride my bike with less fear of getting run over.
And so many other things.
Yet, there is a lot more crapola I have to deal with here than when I'm in Mexico. A million doctors appointments and -oscopies and -grams to make up for the ones I didn't do to in Mexico. Spending fortune on my poor, aging car. Avocadoes that cost $3 piece.
Worst of all, perhaps, is dealing with my ex.
Now my ex, deep down, is a nice person. A kind, empathetic, loving person. But in the latter years of our marriage, he did not act that way for various reasons.
He definitely has not acted that way in the last few months, because since my return to the U.S. in April, he hasn't let me see my dog, Sugar.
Legally, we share Sugar. Up until recently, we have more or less amicably shared her, trading weeks with her when I am in town. And she, being the cutest pug (and possibly the cutest dog) on earth, is one of my greatest joys.
She is smart, fun, cuddly, friendly. Sugar is also much more bonded to my ex than she is to me, and it was like that even before we got divorced, but no matter.
I love her and I miss her so much when I am gone. I look forward to returning to Seattle so I can see her and walk her and hug her and kiss her and play with her.
Now, instead, I am in a legal battle with my ex just so I can see her.
Many wise people have told me just to walk away. To give up. That's it would be better not to have him in my life anyway.
They are right. I probably should. But I haven't been able to.
I have also been asking my mom, in her ethereal state, what I should do. And even she thinks I should walk away. She who loved dogs very much and was never without one.
So along with all the good things about life here: stunning strolls in the mountains, Shakespeare in the park, walking around Greenlake, catching up with friends, camping on islands, and biking on lovely bike paths, I'm gonna be fighting my f*cking ex in court. And missing my lovely little dog so much.
But that's just life isn't it? Always the mixture, the bitter, the sweet, the good, the bad.
In Mexico, it's just a different mix of stuff, maybe a little more on the habanero-chile-flavored side. At least there, I can pretend like the bitter aftermath of this divorce isn't happening.
Here, at least lately, I come face to face with it every day. Not only in with the load of memories that press down on me when I'm here, but now with the glaring absence of Sugar.
Avalanche lilies at Mt. Rainier |
As I battle my ex and miss my dog, I'll try to keep appreciating the good.
Like wildflowers, which almost always boost my mood.
Thursday, February 21, 2019
The ambivalent part-time expat (that's me)
Vallodolid, Yucatan, MX |
Laguna Bacalar, Quintana Roo, MX |
Pachuca, Hidalgo MX |
And yet...
I've been here for four months this time around, and while I want to go home, I also don't want to go home.
Here I can actually afford my life. When I go back to Seattle, this time with my boyfriend in tow (who has miraculously acquired a visa to stay for a while), I will need to get a better-paying job to pay the rent. Or else I will need to go to a cheaper city where the rents aren't so high, of which there are many, but my heart belongs in Seattle...
Tepoztlan, Morelos MX |
And that's OK for now. After all, as a Gemini, ambivalence is my constant state of being anyway.
Plus, look at all the cool stuff I've gotten to see in the last four months!
(And if you think this post is really just an excuse to show off some of my recent photos of Mexico, you'd be right).